In case you didn’t know, cellphones have recently been revolutionizing more than just communications, they have been revolutionizing sex. Foreplay no longer needs the two people to be able to see each other, instead they can be a long way away and still enjoy an intimate sexy time. Thanks to the cellphone, you can not only tell them exactly what you intend to do to them, but also make a movie about it too. This new phenomena even has its own verb: sexting.
The website cosmogirl recently did a survey about sexting. The results were surprising: 33% of adults had sent a nude photo to someone, 59% had sent texts that could be described as ‘sexually explicit’. It seems that couples are becoming more experimental and sending erotic text messages is a big part of this.
Examples of Erotic Text Messages
The first thing to understand is that erotic text messages are a form of roleplaying. Therefore you can have some fun crafting fantasy scenarios. If she is at work tell her that you want to make love to her on her desk and it is a far stronger fantasy. Similarly if she has a fantasy that she loves to dream about but doesn’t actually want to do, then sexting offers a unique chance to describe that fantasy as if it was happening to her.
One of the key things to understand is that the erotic text messages should be progressive. If you start too strong, then she will probably feel overwhelmed and stop. Instead you have to seduce her into the fantasy. Let her enjoy her sexual side and slowly build up: just like real sex!
Sexting also comes with its own limitations. Because the two of you can’t actually see each other, you have to be very specific in your text messages. Tell her exactly what you intend to do to her. This can make some people feel shy or embarrassed, but it can also be a way to surprise your partner by acting in a different way to the way that they expect you to.
Texts You Should Not Send
One thing that a lot of people forget is that sexting, like a lot of roleplaying activities, requires a certain level of trust to have been built up. Therefore you want to make sure that your relationship is strong enough first. Many couples make an effort to be more sexual at the end of their relationship, but sending any nude images or explicit texts can be really risky at this stage. The statistics reveal that 38% of women have received a message that offended them via text, so make sure that you know where her boundaries lie.
Erotic Text Messages for Great Sex
The best thing about all this new technology is that it allows you to start foreplay a long time before the two of you meet up. The key is that you are creating the two key elements of great fantasies: a sexy secret between the two of you and anticipation. If you work hard on creating this sexual world for her, soon you will have her awaiting every mail from you. Once you have achieved that you will be able to turn places that aren’t erotic at all (A train stuck at the station, a stressful day in the office) into your own erotic space.